Will be Adult dating Challenging?
Women Get Honest About Why Dating Is So Hard These Days
I had my own moments of crickets, and in the beginning I filled my head with the most negative thoughts, and eventually, it took a toll on my attitude. In turn my piss poor attitude caused me to treat people differently, and for those to see me in this negative light. If you were to consider reality TV shows like the Bachelor/Bachelorette, you notice the growing difficulty narrowing down the last handful of contestants. Each person having a unique quality different from the rest, which means nobody is above the other, but that in the end the person they choose will always lack something someone else had. Countless times I had to swallow my own pride, not take things so personally and to understand that others were in the same yet different boat as me.
And you should be proud of yourself for putting yourself out there like that. It takes a courage that not everyone has, and it represents that you can do it again! Dating is all about forming relationships and seeing where those relationships go.
This is key and women don’t understand it because a woman’s love is conditional, as this post-wall woman just showed us. And yet, women say that they are held to “unattainable standards.” I simply can no longer even pretend to believe that. Our world just isn’t geared toward having us deal with constant interaction and overlapping personal lives. Privacy is something the modern psyche almost demands to keep sane. This can include losing weight and getting in shape , developing a more assertive personality, changing your body language, learning to flirt, projecting and getting power and more! For many guys it may mean practicing and developing various social skills that men in the past found came more naturally.
It will not be all rainbows and butterflies because nothing in life is, everything has its challenges. If we can learn to master an art form, a sport or earn a prestigious degree, we can surely learn how to build healthy relationships. We need to understand that we’re all accountable to each other in this life and that our happiness is dependent on our ability to care for one another. As also someone with a degree in web design and development, I will let you in on the other side of my two cents. In time I learned my relationships were mirroring my upbringing and dysfunction from family relationships as well as my social environment.
The reality is it doesn’t take very long to get a glimpse of someone’s true colors simply over messaging. You may have to read between the lines to catch those who are content having you in their carousel, but insincerity and inauthenticity usually crack fairly easy under enough pressure. Let’s just say some were patient and respectful, and many pretended they were but clearly weren’t. Some didn’t bat an eye and disappeared once they knew I wasn’t going to take the bait – haha, joke’s on them.
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